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Post by cookiefonster on Oct 27, 2016 22:05:48 GMT
Just in case that becomes a heavily debated topic I'm making a thread on it.
I'll start by saying it would be terrible storytelling to abandon that ship in favor of other stuff despite the buildup through the comic, as the ending credits might have done.
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Post by Sharkalien on Oct 28, 2016 21:21:20 GMT
John isn't interested in those matters of the heart, anyhow
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Post by mementovivere on Oct 28, 2016 22:59:26 GMT
I've said this elsewhere, but it seems like John has a pattern of getting close to someone over the course of a very active day/session, but then after that it sort of fizzles out. We saw it happen with Vriska (yeah, she died and he was stuck on a boat for three years, but even with ghost John it didn't work out) and now it seems it's happened with Roxy. It seems like John doesn't handle inactivity well, and is most on his game when he's being led around or doing heroic things. Also, did he even really do much flirting on his own? It seems like a lot of that was driven by other people. I expect it's going to be addressed in the actual epilogue. Don't forget that part of the Gigapause was devoted to a whole bunch of writing, so Hussie was fully aware of how he was ending the story when he wrote scenes like Roxy and John having their heart to heart on LOWAS. Really though, it's possible that John just doesn't give that much of a shit about romance, as evidenced by the conversation on this page. As he says himself: JOHN: anyway, my point is, who even cares about all that? JOHN: romance and dating are dumb and boring. we are legendary heroes, and we have bigger fish to fry.
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Post by Salty on Oct 28, 2016 23:46:20 GMT
I've said this elsewhere, but it seems like John has a pattern of getting close to someone over the course of a very active day/session, but then after that it sort of fizzles out. We saw it happen with Vriska (yeah, she died and he was stuck on a boat for three years, but even with ghost John it didn't work out) and now it seems it's happened with Roxy. It seems like John doesn't handle inactivity well, and is most on his game when he's being led around or doing heroic things. Also, did he even really do much flirting on his own? It seems like a lot of that was driven by other people. I expect it's going to be addressed in the actual epilogue. Don't forget that part of the Gigapause was devoted to a whole bunch of writing, so Hussie was fully aware of how he was ending the story when he wrote scenes like Roxy and John having their heart to heart on LOWAS. Really though, it's possible that John just doesn't give that much of a shit about romance, as evidenced by the conversation on this page. As he says himself: JOHN: anyway, my point is, who even cares about all that? JOHN: romance and dating are dumb and boring. we are legendary heroes, and we have bigger fish to fry. He probably doesn't after the fifth act, considering how Hussie 'dealt' with his character, though I consider this page to at least have SOME relevance. I'm more salty about Grimdorks, considering that one actually had buildup. Like, a lot of buildup. And a whole bunch of unresolved issues that then went absolutely nowhere, because, you know, watching your parents die together TOTALLY isn't something we should probably talk about. Nope, let's just have John leech off Jane's reunion with her own father and give the BRIEFEST glimpse of something in a snapchat photo that doesn't even concern Rose in the slightest. god im so fucking salty about that ship
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Post by cookiefonster on Oct 29, 2016 23:23:25 GMT
Hm you guys raise some interesting points. But at least with Vriska and Rose John had the excuse of not seeing them for years and thus not being able to develop relationships with them. In Roxy's case that isn't exactly true. There's no reason their relationship couldn't start developing.
Also John/Rose does make sense in a way but it's a hilariously predictable ship with the lead male and female getting together.
In addition, Roxy and Calliope suddenly turning into a romance (assuming that's actually a thing that happens) is basically the exact same reason I dislike Davekat. It's not quite as bad in and of itself but if it turns out to obstruct a largely well-received ship it may be just as bad.
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Post by SpottedBlades on Oct 30, 2016 0:46:59 GMT
Okay but have you considered aro John? Maybe it was just a crush that wasn't meant to last.
Most logical explanation is that a choice had to be made between Roxy/Calliope and Roxy/John for the "ship to slightly point towards" tier. You can't please everyone, but in the end everyone's happy with their love life (or lack of thereof) and that's fine. A lot of ships in Homestuck tend to be hinted at in canon, and slowly disappear in profit of other ships. I don't know whether it's writing incoherence, fanservice or intentional, but it happens. (I'll never forget the glory days of JohnKat.)
Also, Roxy being part of quite the number of popular ships, it'd be a bit ironic if she ended up single and fine with it.
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Post by Salty on Oct 30, 2016 5:33:16 GMT
Hm you guys raise some interesting points. But at least with Vriska and Rose John had the excuse of not seeing them for years and thus not being able to develop relationships with them. In Roxy's case that isn't exactly true. There's no reason their relationship couldn't start developing. Also John/Rose does make sense in a way but it's a hilariously predictable ship with the lead male and female getting together. In addition, Roxy and Calliope suddenly turning into a romance (assuming that's actually a thing that happens) is basically the exact same reason I dislike Davekat. It's not quite as bad in and of itself but if it turns out to obstruct a largely well-received ship it may be just as bad. Well, guess it's time to live up to my name. First and foremost, I'd say that while, yes, this technically is an excuse, it is a shitty one. Honestly, I'd go so far as to say that this is the turning point of the comic, when things start going from 'best thing ever' to something more along the lines of 'fuck everything.' Hussie split up the main characters for three years--three fucking years of absolutely nothing happening, forgetting important plot points, and wasting potential. It was a big middle finger to pretty much everyone, ship or no ship, and certainly not a worthy excuse for just not dealing with all these unresolved issues between the beta kids. And I completely agree with you on Roxy; even if this change had made sense, absolutely nothing justifies the absolutely laziness of their relationship. It's just-- ugh. It's just STUPID. I can't even think of a good metaphor for it because it's handled just so, so poorly. Like, seriously, would it really have been that hard to just follow through on that one thing, rather than relying on the shitty 'subversion' meme that Hussie seems to so frequently try (and fail) to employ? Jesus. You had ONE goddamn job. As for John/Rose, predictable =/= bad. Frankly, the predictability was an ASSET to the relationship, because even if it was predictable, it was given time and had effort put in to building it up. Hussie makes it very evident that something is there, and more beyond just the 'oh boy loves girl' trope. John and Rose have seen each other that their worst; they've watch themselves die, and sacrificed themselves for each other. They compliment each others personalities and are just so GODDAMN UNDERSTANDING. Like, John isn't even AFRAID of Grimdark Rose, because he just trusts her so completely. They have fun with each other, and provide a strong foundation for a long-term relationship. These are the only two characters that have gone through hell and back together, and honestly, I'm ridiculously pissed that this wasn't explored to it's fullest extent, instead of being shoved in our face like some OTHER (cough cough davekat cough) ships. I'm probably going to offend some people with this--which is not my intention, of course, but I don't particularly care regardless--but being 'aro' is not actually a thing. Sorry, but it just isn't scientifically. Actually, let me rephrase that: it is a thing, technically, but it is so infinitesimally unlikely to happen that the chances of knowing someone truly ace/aro in your lifetime are practically nonexistent. I'm not saying this to be an asshole or 'erase' whatever the fuck you may believe, I'm just being honest. Which isn't wrong, mind you, just so we can clarify. So logically, John being ace/aro is practically impossible, especially considering that he has expressed both physical and mental attraction to several people over the course of the comic, and continues to do so. Rose, Vriska, Terezi, Roxy-- hell, I'd even go so far as to argue KARKAT, but that's more of an idle headcanon than anything really rooted in reality (side note: i love you fellow JohnKat shipper. Never falter.). The fact of the matter is, John is attracted to people, and gets constantly spat on in favor of hastily rushed in 'omg look at how progressive we are' pandering bullshit that does more to HURT our demographic than help it. And I just
fucking. hate that. Alright, salt done.
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Post by cookiefonster on Oct 30, 2016 12:55:31 GMT
So logically, John being ace/aro is practically impossible, especially considering that he has expressed both physical and mental attraction to several people over the course of the comic, and continues to do so. Rose, Vriska, Terezi, Roxy-- hell, I'd even go so far as to argue KARKAT, but that's more of an idle headcanon than anything really rooted in reality (side note: i love you fellow JohnKat shipper. Never falter.). The fact of the matter is, John is attracted to people, and gets constantly spat on in favor of hastily rushed in 'omg look at how progressive we are' pandering bullshit that does more to HURT our demographic than help it. And I just
fucking. hate that. Alright, salt done. Oh god, don't even get me started on ships coming off as "omg look how progressive we are". Davekat especially comes off this way, mainly because of Dave going on and on about stuff that gives many people a stereotypical Tumblr vibe. The worst part is, the comic had previously handed gay pairings in a much better way than that.
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Post by renegadeshroom on Oct 30, 2016 14:30:47 GMT
Not even gonna touch the JohnRose stuff, but holy hell this thread. I'm probably going to offend some people with this--which is not my intention, of course, but I don't particularly care regardless--but being 'aro' is not actually a thing. Sorry, but it just isn't scientifically. Actually, let me rephrase that: it is a thing, technically, but it is so infinitesimally unlikely to happen that the chances of knowing someone truly ace/aro in your lifetime are practically nonexistent. I'm not saying this to be an asshole or 'erase' whatever the fuck you may believe, I'm just being honest. Which isn't wrong, mind you, just so we can clarify. Ah yes, and I suppose that you've done numerous scientific studies on aromanticism and human sexuality over the years. And that you've had those studies reviewed by scientific peers and gone through the rigorous process of the scientific method to confirm your so called "scientific fact?" And that your years of studying this phenomenon qualify you to override the actual lived experiences of thousands of people who absolutely, certainly know themselves and their own romantic and sexual inclinations far, far better than some guy who doesn't even know any of them, since you know, it's their experience, and not yours? Well I guess that your evidence is irrefutable! It was obviously silly of me, an aromantic person, to even think otherwise, especially since I obviously don't even exist according to you! In case it wasn't clear, what you said in that sentence was utter nonsense. You have zero evidence whatsoever to back up your ludicrous claim, and telling an entire group of people that they don't exist is some serious bullshit. Your intention doesn't mean anything when you proceed to spout offensive things after proclaiming "hey guys, no offense, BUT." Just like your intentions don't matter if you accidentally step on someone's foot. You still stepped on their foot, and it fucking hurt. Saying "no offense" and trying to refuse responsibility for your behaviour doesn't make it okay to do. You are being an ignorant asshole, and an arrogant one at that. So logically, John being ace/aro is practically impossible, especially considering that he has expressed both physical and mental attraction to several people over the course of the comic, and continues to do so. Rose, Vriska, Terezi, Roxy-- hell, I'd even go so far as to argue KARKAT, but that's more of an idle headcanon than anything really rooted in reality (side note: i love you fellow JohnKat shipper. Never falter.). The fact of the matter is, John is attracted to people, and gets constantly spat on in favor of hastily rushed in 'omg look at how progressive we are' pandering bullshit that does more to HURT our demographic than help it. And I just
fucking. hate that. Alright, salt done. Oh god, don't even get me started on ships coming off as "omg look how progressive we are". Davekat especially comes off this way, mainly because of Dave going on and on about stuff that gives many people a stereotypical Tumblr vibe. The worst part is, the comic had previously handed gay pairings in a much better way than that. And I suppose that you, a straight and cis person, would know all about how queer subject matter should be handled in fiction? Also why the hell are you bringing up Davekat in a Breathalyser thread? Additionally, what on Earth gave you people the impression that anything mentioned here was even a thing for the sake of progressiveness? You realise that Hussie canonising ships you don't like doesn't mean he's pandering to "SJWs" -- why is that even a bad thing? Seriously, explain it to me -- right? Is it so farfetched that he simply thought "you know what, I actually like this pairing, let's make it a thing!" and proceeded to just... make it a thing?
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Post by ashercrane on Oct 30, 2016 14:50:14 GMT
Can we please not turn this into a thread of people saying "You're wrong!" " No you're wrong!" With no proof? This is just one person stating something is wrong, and then someone saying that person is wrong.
On topic though, it is really aggrivating to see that whole thing with Roxy and John not doing anything. It's like a set of bowling pins just sitting there, eternaly waiting to be knocked down, but may never be. Just... augh....
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Post by cookiefonster on Oct 30, 2016 15:02:55 GMT
Can we please not turn this into a thread of people saying "You're wrong!" " No you're wrong!" With no proof? This is just one person stating something is wrong, and then someone saying that person is wrong. On topic though, it is really aggrivating to see that whole thing with Roxy and John not doing anything. It's like a set of bowling pins just sitting there, eternaly waiting to be knocked down, but may never be. Just... augh.... Yeah aggravating is exactly how I'd describe that situation.
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Post by Salty on Oct 30, 2016 17:44:53 GMT
Not even gonna touch the JohnRose stuff, but holy hell this thread. I'm probably going to offend some people with this--which is not my intention, of course, but I don't particularly care regardless--but being 'aro' is not actually a thing. Sorry, but it just isn't scientifically. Actually, let me rephrase that: it is a thing, technically, but it is so infinitesimally unlikely to happen that the chances of knowing someone truly ace/aro in your lifetime are practically nonexistent. I'm not saying this to be an asshole or 'erase' whatever the fuck you may believe, I'm just being honest. Which isn't wrong, mind you, just so we can clarify. Ah yes, and I suppose that you've done numerous scientific studies on aromanticism and human sexuality over the years. And that you've had those studies reviewed by scientific peers and gone through the rigorous process of the scientific method to confirm your so called "scientific fact?" And that your years of studying this phenomenon qualify you to override the actual lived experiences of thousands of people who absolutely, certainly know themselves and their own romantic and sexual inclinations far, far better than some guy who doesn't even know any of them, since you know, it's their experience, and not yours? Well I guess that your evidence is irrefutable! It was obviously silly of me, an aromantic person, to even think otherwise, especially since I obviously don't even exist according to you! In case it wasn't clear, what you said in that sentence was utter nonsense. You have zero evidence whatsoever to back up your ludicrous claim, and telling an entire group of people that they don't exist is some serious bullshit. Your intention doesn't mean anything when you proceed to spout offensive things after proclaiming "hey guys, no offense, BUT." Just like your intentions don't matter if you accidentally step on someone's foot. You still stepped on their foot, and it fucking hurt. Saying "no offense" and trying to refuse responsibility for your behaviour doesn't make it okay to do. You are being an ignorant asshole, and an arrogant one at that. Oh. Oh boy. Oh sweet baby boy, I can already tell this is gonna be a goddamn party. Are you ready kids? Aye captain! Let's straighten our ties, tip our fedoras and sing the motherfucking happy birthday song, because this shit is about to get hellaciously autistic. Ah yes, the ever prevalent argument of 'but, but, muh feelings!' Because, you know, feelings always trump science--what, we're conservatives? No, no, we swear we're liberal guys, promise! We just don't like facts that contradicts our preconceived notions of whatever bullshit we're spouting this week! The personal experiences of our lives override fact and evidence; how fucking dare you question us otherwise. How offensive! Sorry, am I triggering you with this? Is someone having a different opinion than you just too much for you to handle? Oh well, I'm sorry, the world isn't just a giant liberal arts college campus. And if you don't like hearing that, well, maybe you shouldn't be starting shit in the goddamn salt thread. All I did was give an opinion--a mild one at that--and while I fully endorse your right to contradict me, make no mistake that I will exercise my right to do the same. Nah, you probably don't exist, honestly. All evidence would point to the contrary. If you wanted my professional opinion--and this actually is something I'm qualified to talk on, mind you--I would guess that you've been entrenched within a community that so heavily stresses upon the value of being special that you'll lie to yourself and others to gain a sense of simultaneous and contradictory oppression and superiority. You most likely subscribe to ideologies that you've been told to subscribe to so as to not diverge from the collective of your peers. This is a common trait of many online communities, not just your own: Tumblr, 4chan, Reddit; all of these communities have their own version of this, so yours is hardly one worth denoting as unique. And quite frankly, it's been this way since the beginning of time--we, as a species, strives towards congregating in groups, and will mold our opinions to better fit with those said groups. As far as evidence goes, very little research has gone into that I'm talking about -- neurological study of sexuality is few and far between, but what we have been able to gather would show that these claims of asexuality and aromanticism are by and large seeped deep within numerous false pretense. If you want to look for yourself, this article will probably summarize that limited research. Well, as a published bisexual in a gay relationship, I actually know quite a lot about how queer subject matter should be handled in fiction--not that this has any particular relevance to the concept of fiction in general, and you could easily criticize a piece with poor implementation regardless of whether or not you were well versed in 'queer subject matter,' which, by the way, isn't even a goddamn thing; it's literally just 'romance.' Why do you feel the need to separate the LGBT community? There is nothing special about romance whether it's gay, straight or otherwise, and just as you can criticize straight romance, you can criticize gay romance just the same. We're bringing it up because it became relevant to a conversation about how relationships were handled as a whole, Roxygen included. This isn't that hard. Primarily because it was thrust in our faces without any prior buildup--in fact, much of the previous indications promoted that these relationships wouldn't happen! It was incredibly poor handling on the part of Hussie, especially in regards to Roxygen. Pandering to any demographic is bad, not just SJW's. If he was pandering to /hsg/ or r/homestuck, I'd have the same issue. Pandering in general usually takes away from the actual story elements, which is what most of us WANTED to know about. Important plot threads were just thrown by the wayside in order to make room for 'muh gay bbys!' And while I have no issue with that on the whole--for the love of god, I'm a fucking JohnKat shipper--I want those relationships to be handled PROPERLY, with slow, believable build and concise storytelling. This is also why I like JohnRose so much, because it actually had a ridiculous amount of buildup, and was then just unceremoniously discarded because, nope, now were gonna separate the main characters and give Rose a badass space alien GF that she'll burden with all her emotional issues and never grow as a person! THIS IS FUCKING FANTASTIC STORYTELLING, RIGHT?!No. No it isn't. god, maybe i should just have a salt quarantine thread just for my rants--this is getting ridiculous. anyway, i'm done with this conversation. back to roxygen
also, i should probably mention that i would have absolutely no problem with rosemary had they not made all of rose's subsequent development based off the fact that she was in a relationship with kanaya. like, really? that's just a goddman slap in the face to a character that was so fucking interesting, who had all these unresolved plot threads-- i gotta stop myself, i'll just go on another tangent. whatever
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Post by Salty on Oct 30, 2016 18:02:41 GMT
Can we please not turn this into a thread of people saying "You're wrong!" " No you're wrong!" With no proof? This is just one person stating something is wrong, and then someone saying that person is wrong. On topic though, it is really aggrivating to see that whole thing with Roxy and John not doing anything. It's like a set of bowling pins just sitting there, eternaly waiting to be knocked down, but may never be. Just... augh.... Yeah aggravating is exactly how I'd describe that situation. Yeah, pretty much. Roxygen was just-- man, is it too much to just ask that John be happy? That poor boy has been through so much...
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Post by sporkaganza on Oct 30, 2016 19:02:55 GMT
Hey guys, this is an MSPA forum not fucking KotakuinAction.
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Post by Salty on Oct 30, 2016 19:17:39 GMT
Hey guys, this is an MSPA forum not fucking KotakuinAction. Shh, they must never know.
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Post by sporkaganza on Oct 30, 2016 19:28:04 GMT
Hey guys, this is an MSPA forum not fucking KotakuinAction. Shh, they must never know. Bro, I'm talking to you
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Post by Salty on Oct 30, 2016 19:44:18 GMT
Shh, they must never know. Bro, I'm talking to youYes, I am aware. It's called a 'joke.' Very passe, I know. Now, shall we continue derailing, or do you have any actual salt concerning Roxygen?
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Post by scarodactyl on Oct 30, 2016 20:09:18 GMT
A nice reminder of why so many people weren't interested in checking out Homestuck. There's nothing people love more than having people shout at them online about difficult and sensitive issues.
I like Roxy--honestly, she's the only Alpha kid I care for. The John/Roxy pairing made sense to me. But given where the story seems to be pointing ('neutral ending' or whatever), John ending up happy and content wasn't an option, so I am not particularly upset about it. Maybe that's wishful thinking but we'll see.
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Post by cookiefonster on Oct 30, 2016 20:17:48 GMT
A nice reminder of why so many people weren't interested in checking out Homestuck. There's nothing people love more than having people shout at them online about difficult and sensitive issues. I like Roxy--honestly, she's the only Alpha kid I care for. The John/Roxy pairing made sense to me. But given where the story seems to be pointing ('neutral ending' or whatever), John ending up happy and content wasn't an option, so I am not particularly upset about it. Maybe that's wishful thinking but we'll see. Hm, well... In my opinion if any characters deserve happy endings it's all the beta and alpha kids, especially John. The story's kind of having a hard time giving him such an ending despite a whole lot of potential for him to finally be happy in life.
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Post by Salty on Oct 30, 2016 20:51:15 GMT
A nice reminder of why so many people weren't interested in checking out Homestuck. There's nothing people love more than having people shout at them online about difficult and sensitive issues. I like Roxy--honestly, she's the only Alpha kid I care for. The John/Roxy pairing made sense to me. But given where the story seems to be pointing ('neutral ending' or whatever), John ending up happy and content wasn't an option, so I am not particularly upset about it. Maybe that's wishful thinking but we'll see. Hence, salt quarantine. Thank god for forethought. Eh, I liked both Roxy and Dirk -- I thought the two of them had a lot of really interesting potential. John/Roxy made sense to me as well, but that just sorta got thrown by the wayside. And Dirk was more or less shafted post-retcon. Still, I'm hoping we can get a happy ending out of this. I'd laugh so hard if Johnvris turned out canon after all this time. I just think our little Egderp deserves some happiness.
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Post by The One Guy on Oct 31, 2016 15:11:47 GMT
...I find myself in an unusual situation of strongly agreeing with Salty about pandering to SJWs and strongly disagreeing with him about the existance of aromantics. I'm not gonna fuel the flames too much, but I do want to respond to two things: So logically, John being ace/aro is practically impossible, especially considering that he has expressed both physical and mental attraction to several people over the course of the comic, and continues to do so. To be honest, I don't recall John ever feeling romantic attraction to anyone. How are you getting that he has? As far as evidence goes, very little research has gone into that I'm talking about -- neurological study of sexuality is few and far between, but what we have been able to gather would show that these claims of asexuality and aromanticism are by and large seeped deep within numerous false pretense. If you want to look for yourself, this article will probably summarize that limited research. That link goes nowhere. Which is annoying because I'm genuinely curious where you're getting your "scientific facts" from. ... But Anyway: In my opinion if any characters deserve happy endings it's all the beta and alpha kids, especially John. The story's kind of having a hard time giving him such an ending despite a whole lot of potential for him to finally be happy in life. Honestly, one thing that buggs me about the credits is that it's not a happy ending for any of the beta kids. I mean they spend a few good years on their newly created Earth and become successful, but that's not the ending. In the end they go to fight young Caliborn and get trapped in the juju; we don't even know for sure that what Vriska does releases them! In a way, John got the most satisfying ending of any of them, as he seemed alone and dissatisfied with life after Sburb, so going out in a blaze of glory could be seen as just the sort of thing he would want, but then he had to take all the other kids living happy and successful lives with him. More to the topic of this thread, I feel like John wasn't put in a relationship specifically for that reason, to help ensure he'd find his life boring and unfulfilled (Granted, him being aromantic would be a good justification for that, and obviously romance isn't nessesary for a fufilling life, but it's just one of the potential ways for him to end up happy that was deliberately avoided to force this result).
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Post by Salty on Oct 31, 2016 16:04:11 GMT
...I find myself in an unusual situation of strongly agreeing with Salty about pandering to SJWs and strongly disagreeing with him about the existence of aromantics. I'm not gonna fuel the flames too much, but I do want to respond to two things: So logically, John being ace/aro is practically impossible, especially considering that he has expressed both physical and mental attraction to several people over the course of the comic, and continues to do so. To be honest, I don't recall John ever feeling romantic attraction to anyone. How are you getting that he has? As far as evidence goes, very little research has gone into that I'm talking about -- neurological study of sexuality is few and far between, but what we have been able to gather would show that these claims of asexuality and aromanticism are by and large seeped deep within numerous false pretense. If you want to look for yourself, this article will probably summarize that limited research. That link goes nowhere. Which is annoying because I'm genuinely curious where you're getting your "scientific facts" from. ... But Anyway: In my opinion if any characters deserve happy endings it's all the beta and alpha kids, especially John. The story's kind of having a hard time giving him such an ending despite a whole lot of potential for him to finally be happy in life. Honestly, one thing that buggs me about the credits is that it's not a happy ending for any of the beta kids. I mean they spend a few good years on their newly created Earth and become successful, but that's not the ending. In the end they go to fight young Caliborn and get trapped in the juju; we don't even know for sure that what Vriska does releases them! In a way, John got the most satisfying ending of any of them, as he seemed alone and dissatisfied with life after Sburb, so going out in a blaze of glory could be seen as just the sort of thing he would want, but then he had to take all the other kids living happy and successful lives with him. More to the topic of this thread, I feel like John wasn't put in a relationship specifically for that reason, to help ensure he'd find his life boring and unfulfilled (Granted, him being aromantic would be a good justification for that, and obviously romance isn't necessary for a fufilling life, but it's just one of the potential ways for him to end up happy that was deliberately avoided to force this result). Primarily, I'm referring to his reaction with Rose in Seer: Descend, as well as his prior conversations with Jade in regards to Karkat's shipping chart. He remains quite flustered after that, indicating that at least a prefatory attraction took place. But, I digress. As for the evidence, I apologize for that link not working; I'll post it again here: www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2117556/Though I believe I should clarify something: I don't personally have an issue with anyone referring to themselves as asexual or aromantic, at all, in any way. My only real concern is when people use this--and it is an unfortunately common occurrence, at least in my experience--to do things completely outside the realm of socially acceptable boundries, or, i.e, use it to justify being a massive dick. People who identify was certain things for what seems to be the sole reason of using newfound 'oppression points' pisses me off in a way that I can scarce describe. If you identify as asexual or aromantic and you don't use it in this way, then good for you. I don't really care, and, honestly, I'd be more than happy to respect whatever it is you want to identify as. I won't judge; we all want to attach ourselves to thing; nothing is wrong with that in-of-itself. I'm certainly just as guilty of this, as we all are. So please, don't take my comments as me attempting to be inhospitable; I should have clarified at the beginning, and apologize for not doing so. As for the possibility of an aromantic John, maybe I'm just salty and biased; I'm more than willing to admit that, especially considering my intense love of JohnRose and JohnKat. Perhaps my comments were just a little heavy handed and brazen, and would've been better understood had I used a degree of tact. Still salty about the ending though. Fuck that ending.
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Post by cookiefonster on Oct 31, 2016 16:10:45 GMT
In my opinion if any characters deserve happy endings it's all the beta and alpha kids, especially John. The story's kind of having a hard time giving him such an ending despite a whole lot of potential for him to finally be happy in life. Honestly, one thing that buggs me about the credits is that it's not a happy ending for any of the beta kids. I mean they spend a few good years on their newly created Earth and become successful, but that's not the ending. In the end they go to fight young Caliborn and get trapped in the juju; we don't even know for sure that what Vriska does releases them! In a way, John got the most satisfying ending of any of them, as he seemed alone and dissatisfied with life after Sburb, so going out in a blaze of glory could be seen as just the sort of thing he would want, but then he had to take all the other kids living happy and successful lives with him. More to the topic of this thread, I feel like John wasn't put in a relationship specifically for that reason, to help ensure he'd find his life boring and unfulfilled (Granted, him being aromantic would be a good justification for that, and obviously romance isn't nessesary for a fufilling life, but it's just one of the potential ways for him to end up happy that was deliberately avoided to force this result). I've thought of that idea too and it's definitely plausible. But shitting all over a ship just for the sake of making John dissatisfied with life is kind of a questionable thing to do.
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Post by The One Guy on Oct 31, 2016 17:37:20 GMT
Primarily, I'm referring to his reaction with Rose in Seer: Descend, as well as his prior conversations with Jade in regards to Karkat's shipping chart. He remains quite flustered after that, indicating that at least a prefatory attraction took place. But, I digress. As for the evidence, I apologize for that link not working; I'll post it again here: www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2117556/Though I believe I should clarify something: I don't personally have an issue with anyone referring to themselves as asexual or aromantic, at all, in any way. My only real concern is when people use this--and it is an unfortunately common occurrence, at least in my experience--to do things completely outside the realm of socially acceptable boundries, or, i.e, use it to justify being a massive dick. People who identify was certain things for what seems to be the sole reason of using newfound 'oppression points' pisses me off in a way that I can scarce describe. If you identify as asexual or aromantic and you don't use it in this way, then good for you. I don't really care, and, honestly, I'd be more than happy to respect whatever it is you want to identify as. I won't judge; we all want to attach ourselves to thing; nothing is wrong with that in-of-itself. I'm certainly just as guilty of this, as we all are. So please, don't take my comments as me attempting to be inhospitable; I should have clarified at the beginning, and apologize for not doing so. As for the possibility of an aromantic John, maybe I'm just salty and biased; I'm more than willing to admit that, especially considering my intense love of JohnRose and JohnKat. Perhaps my comments were just a little heavy handed and brazen, and would've been better understood had I used a degree of tact. Still salty about the ending though. Fuck that ending. Ah, you should have been more clear then; what you were saying came off as arguing why John can't be aromantic rather than expressing annoyance at SJWs who use this to consider themselves a special snowflake, oppressed, or superior. I too agree that many SJWs do this and it's wrong, though I do feel you need to be more careful not to stereotype or generalize. While indeed some do flaunt their orientation in such an annoying way, you can't just assume that someone who's not a heterosexual heteromantic is automatically going to be that way. renegadeshroom's response did not indicate that they consider themself superior because of their orientation, only that they were annoyed at you claiming it didn't exist. Also, I took a look at the study you linked and it seemed to be about what parts of the brain control which aspects of sexuality. Unless there's something in there that I missed because I only skimmed it, I not only fail to see what this has to do with romantic attraction as opposed to sexual attraction, but I also don't see how it has anything to do with the possibility of lacking such an attraction. Honestly, one thing that buggs me about the credits is that it's not a happy ending for any of the beta kids. I mean they spend a few good years on their newly created Earth and become successful, but that's not the ending. In the end they go to fight young Caliborn and get trapped in the juju; we don't even know for sure that what Vriska does releases them! In a way, John got the most satisfying ending of any of them, as he seemed alone and dissatisfied with life after Sburb, so going out in a blaze of glory could be seen as just the sort of thing he would want, but then he had to take all the other kids living happy and successful lives with him. More to the topic of this thread, I feel like John wasn't put in a relationship specifically for that reason, to help ensure he'd find his life boring and unfulfilled (Granted, him being aromantic would be a good justification for that, and obviously romance isn't nessesary for a fufilling life, but it's just one of the potential ways for him to end up happy that was deliberately avoided to force this result). I've thought of that idea too and it's definitely plausible. But shitting all over a ship just for the sake of making John dissatisfied with life is kind of a questionable thing to do. It is a questionable thing to do indeed, hence part of why I'm dissatisfied (or, dare I say, salty) about this aspect of the ending.
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Post by Salty on Oct 31, 2016 19:46:46 GMT
Primarily, I'm referring to his reaction with Rose in Seer: Descend, as well as his prior conversations with Jade in regards to Karkat's shipping chart. He remains quite flustered after that, indicating that at least a prefatory attraction took place. But, I digress. As for the evidence, I apologize for that link not working; I'll post it again here: www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2117556/Though I believe I should clarify something: I don't personally have an issue with anyone referring to themselves as asexual or aromantic, at all, in any way. My only real concern is when people use this--and it is an unfortunately common occurrence, at least in my experience--to do things completely outside the realm of socially acceptable boundries, or, i.e, use it to justify being a massive dick. People who identify was certain things for what seems to be the sole reason of using newfound 'oppression points' pisses me off in a way that I can scarce describe. If you identify as asexual or aromantic and you don't use it in this way, then good for you. I don't really care, and, honestly, I'd be more than happy to respect whatever it is you want to identify as. I won't judge; we all want to attach ourselves to thing; nothing is wrong with that in-of-itself. I'm certainly just as guilty of this, as we all are. So please, don't take my comments as me attempting to be inhospitable; I should have clarified at the beginning, and apologize for not doing so. As for the possibility of an aromantic John, maybe I'm just salty and biased; I'm more than willing to admit that, especially considering my intense love of JohnRose and JohnKat. Perhaps my comments were just a little heavy handed and brazen, and would've been better understood had I used a degree of tact. Still salty about the ending though. Fuck that ending. Ah, you should have been more clear then; what you were saying came off as arguing why John can't be aromantic rather than expressing annoyance at SJWs who use this to consider themselves a special snowflake, oppressed, or superior. I too agree that many SJWs do this and it's wrong, though I do feel you need to be more careful not to stereotype or generalize. While indeed some do flaunt their orientation in such an annoying way, you can't just assume that someone who's not a heterosexual heteromantic is automatically going to be that way. renegadeshroom's response did not indicate that they consider them self superior because of their orientation, only that they were annoyed at you claiming it didn't exist. Also, I took a look at the study you linked and it seemed to be about what parts of the brain control which aspects of sexuality. Unless there's something in there that I missed because I only skimmed it, I not only fail to see what this has to do with romantic attraction as opposed to sexual attraction, but I also don't see how it has anything to do with the possibility of lacking such an attraction. I've thought of that idea too and it's definitely plausible. But shitting all over a ship just for the sake of making John dissatisfied with life is kind of a questionable thing to do. It is a questionable thing to do indeed, hence part of why I'm dissatisfied (or, dare I say, salty) about this aspect of the ending. I agree, I most certainly should have. I have the unfortunate tenancy to use exaggeration and hyperbole when making arguments, more for my own entertainment so as to not be bored by what I'm writing, but sometimes the meaning I intend to convey can be unintentionally misconstrued. What I should have said was this: being aromantic, or asexual for that matter, is rare. Very rare, and the chances of it happening are rare. This does not account for personal choice or identification, of course, only more the physical manifestations of neurological patterns; the article I linked was meant to illuminate the rarity of these chemical divergences in the regions that correlate with sexual identify and preference. The vast majority of the time, sexuality is primarily heterosexual, or mostly heterosexual, this accounting for about 85-90% of the population. A remaining 10-15% would be classified as homosexual, or mostly homosexual. Divergences from these two are even rarer than the aforementioned, almost to the point of speculation, though I personally think not enough research has gone into the study to justify one way or another. I'm really lumping romantic preference with sexual preference here, because there hasn't been any research separating the two as of yet. Here, these may provide a more clear picture of what I'm talking about: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Inferior_temporal_gyrusen.wikipedia.org/wiki/Insular_cortexen.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anterior_cingulate_cortexen.wikipedia.org/wiki/Orbitofrontal_cortexAs well as www.scienceagogo.com/news/19990123232858data_trunc_sys.shtml if you just wanted a concise overview. Anyway, yes, my aggression was more linked to a distaste for those who flaunt their sexuality and gender in order to garner special treatment and privileges from those around them, denying scientific evidence and purposefully locking themselves away in echo chambers rather than exposing themselves to different worldviews. This being said, I am not so quick as to demonize the group as a whole; I myself am not straight, after all. I just don't find it necessary to use that as a starting point for justifying not only all the bad things that happened to me, but all the bad things I've done as well. Personal responsibility is a 'thing.' As far as my response to Ren, I just thought they were being shitty. Just, you know, all around shitty. I hadn't exactly started out looking for a fight, and I hadn't expected to get one. I was simply stating an opinion--granted, one I've now partially recanted--in an unobtrusive and unoffensive way. I didn't want conflict, though I do recognize comments like that usually generate conflict in of themselves, and I probably should've been more aware of this. Blame the autism, I guess. John deserved better than what Hussie and the others gave him. Though, I will say, I would love it if he somehow got himself back to the pre-retcon timeline. I always wanted to explore the greater consequences of that, and maybe even--dare I suggest?--see the happenings of (Dave), (Jade), and (Rose). Or have (S) Remember become relevant in some way, shape, or form. After all, those are where his real friends are. These people aren't exact the ones John knew, which could explain just why he's so, you know, alone.
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